Gabsterz Everything Relationship's

I give credit where credit is due and I have learned in my 50 years on earth that acknowledging and accepting responsibility for your own actions speaks volumes about who you really are. I have been divorced for 10 years and I have been by myself for pretty much that whole entire time. I have had more than enough time to immerse myself fully in self-reflection. The only way that you can really love someone else is to first know how to love yourself.

These days, I look at all the failing relationships and become a bit disheartened. We have all seen the social media accounts that depict the new couples in a relationship where the last name is being used as if they are already married. They change relationships like they change underwear, leaving behind a trail of social media accounts with the last names they have so easily tacked on to the end of their names. It’s like they are still in high school dating and the last name is the letter jacket or class ring. I have personally witnessed a girl that I know having 10 social media accounts representing 10 different relationships in a years time. That’s more relationships than I have had in my whole life.

Ever wonder why people stay single after a failed relationship. In my case, I have a couple of reasons that stand out. Getting divorced was one of the hardest things that I have encountered in my life and I don’t know if I will ever get into another serious relationship let alone get married again. It leaves you damaged and fearful to commit to another relationship. I also converted to Catholicism and that in itself makes dating more challenging because dating should always culminate into marriage. I don’t know what the future holds for me and if I will ever meet a Catholic woman to even date or convince someone who is not Catholic to convert. I lean on my faith and cling to hope that God will put that “‘Helper”, in my life. We will just have to see if that comes to fruition.