It is said that there is a woman for every man in this world. I don’t know about the rest of yáll, but I have run into a dating desert. I don’t know if it is my peculiar attributes that I desire in a woman that are making this journey all the more challenging, or if it comes down to the fact that their definitions of loyalty, honesty, and trust do not coincide with mine.
In my experience I place a great deal of significance on honesty in relationships and everyday life. When someone is being dishonest they are making the conscious decision to intentionally deceive you. Now, if that doesn’t put things into perspective for you what will?
Loyalty is a requirement for any relationship to be successful. You should never have to second guess whether or not your partner is coming back home or not. They should have your back in all situations and you should know that – hands down.
Trust is an essential element to letting you relax enough to become comfortable so that the real you comes out. Trust is something that is easy freely given but once lost it will never be the same again.
If you have these 3 elements, and of course, genuine love, then you are a leg up on having a great, healthy relationship.
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